I’m not going to lie. My body-positivity was at an all-time high while I was pregnant with my daughter. Like many of us, I’ve had minor issues throughout my whole life when it comes to how I viewed myself. Looking back, there were times I thought I was fat when I was completely healthy. So seeing my body in a whole new way, and watching it literally create a fantastic little human being, was eye-opening. That said, I also had grand illusions of “bouncing back.”
“I think I want to invest in a whole new wardrobe,” I told my husband. “I want to look like a fashionable mom.” Yes, I actually said that. Then I realized that babies spit up and have accidents a lot, which is why you want to avoid things you need to dry-clean.
My stomach, which I loved weeks earlier, almost resembled a bloated-yet-deflated beach ball. I didn’t want to pour a lot of money into things that didn’t fit well, or were in a size I was unhappy with.
Kylie Jenner had the same issues, which she revealed on an episode of Keeping Up With The Kardashians. “Nothing in my closet fits me,” she said to sister Kim Kardashian. “I’m just feeling a little insecure. I feel like my hips have just spread. My favorite jeans, they’re never going to fit me again.”
“I’m naturally just a really skinny person. But not like Kendall. She’s naturally, like, model status. But yeah, I’ve always had a really flat stomach, but I never felt like it went back to what it was before Stormi until recently, and I feel like it has a lot to do with diet,” she said on Instagram Live, according to Yahoo.
“I really eat very crazy usually. Like whatever I want,” she admitted. “Pizza, pasta, a lot of dairy. And I just kind of cut all of that out and have just been eating better.”
Jenner is in the public eye, so she may have felt a bit of added pressure — but it can often take moms years to feel more confident in their bodies.
Babies are a lot of hard work, and if you need to choose between exercise and sleep, you’ll probably choose sleep.
*one week postpartum*
— Douglas A. Boneparth (@dougboneparth) March 12, 2019
Me: Did you get any sleep last night?
Wife: Yeah.
Me: So, you’re good now?
Wife: ...
Me: I’ll see myself out.
With food choices, you should fuel yourself with nutritious foods that will give you energy, but don’t be so hard on yourself if you need to pop a Mama Celeste pizza in the microwave, since time is so limited.
That first year, especially, is going to be a blur. So, don’t forget to go easy on yourself.
Even though it’s a shame that so many women feel down about themselves after giving birth, it is nice to know that even Kylie Jenner can admit it’s a rude awakening.
Because you should never compare yourself to other postpartum moms, especially celebrities.
Me [stressed after chasing toddler around bedroom for an hour]: Please, please, time for bed. I have lots of work to do.
— Merve Emre (@mervatim) August 10, 2018
Toddler: Mommy, just relax.
Me: What?
Toddler: Act normal and be yourself.
Women at every stage of pregnancy and having a baby are beautiful. It might be tough to see now, but give it some time.
Having a baby takes a toll, but it’s a small sacrifice when you realize you’re bringing a kind, intelligent, and incredibly sweet new person into the world. Sure, Kylie Jenner may miss her favorite jeans, but chances are, she’s much happier to have Stormi in her life.
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