Whether it’s your next date, a business dinner, a family gathering, or an upcoming celebration, chances are you’re bound to find yourself at a fancy restaurant soon. But do you know what you’re doing?
Can you decipher between a salad fork and a dinner fork? If the answer is ‘no’, ‘hmm’, or ‘what is a salad fork’, you’re in good company. Turns out that most of us do not know how to act at a fine dining establishment. Exotic foods, confusing cutlery, and cataclysmic condiments have thrown many people.
While feeling like a fish out of the water is unlikely to get you kicked out of a restaurant, eating hunks of wasabi, parts of vegetables they shouldn’t have, and accidentally ordering plastic food have left a few diners a little more than embarrassed. So how do you make sure you don’t end up a statistic in this great battle?
Wine seems to be something that stumps even the most seasoned diner, and there is a foolproof tip to get you through the awkwardness without saying a single word. According to Business Insider, during “the wine taste… smell it, sip it, do whatever you’d like but just give a happy nod to the server so they can start pouring.” Most people “will just stare blankly and wonder what the heck is going on. This happens way more often than you’d expect.”
It doesn’t seem too difficult to pretend to be an expert on wine. But when you learn the rigorous training Master Sommeliers go through to achieve this distinctive title, you may change your mind. Sommeliers are trained and knowledgeable wine professionals, who with just a taste can tell you what a wine is, where it was made, and what food it pairs with. Note: that doesn’t mean it tastes like pears.
While out at dinner recently, someone leaned across to me and whispered “do we eat the outside bit too,” while holding up a piece of edamame. I shrugged. But I was very wrong. This Twitter user found out the hard way. While the inside of edamame contains small green jewels that are absolutely delicious, the shell is thick, unpleasant, and not exactly a treat to eat.
As a teen went to a faux Irish place at Universal Studios Orlando for food. They brought out a dessert trolley at the end and my mum insisted on taking the one she wanted from the trolley. The server offered to bring her a "fresh" one, but she was insistent. They were plastic.
— Shaun Clinton (@shaunclinton) May 19, 2019
Are you the kind of person to insist on a specific slice of cake at a bakery? So was this mom, who had her eyes set on a delicious dessert on this cake trolley at a restaurant in Orlando, Florida. But despite the waiter insisting that she would bring her a fresh one, she got stuck with a plastic prop cake. It’s a common practice in Japan, but it hasn’t kept people from falling for fake food.
On our honeymoon at a fancy Fiji resort, a server was walking around the pool handing out slices of watermelon on toothpicks. He held one out a bit awkwardly for my husband, and my husband panicked, leaned in, & ate the watermelon straight off the toothpick in the guy's hand.
— Jill Kolongowski (@jillkolongowski) May 18, 2019
While celebrating their honeymoon at a lovely Fijian resort, an uncomfortable interaction between a server and this new-husband ensued. A Twitter user shared this story, explaining how when a server was handing out pieces of watermelon on toothpicks around the pool, instead of her man grabbing a piece, ate the watermelon right off the hand of the waiter. We are in disbelief!
Mini versions of food are quite common, from appetizers and hors d’oeuvres to petit four and sliders, tiny bites are not only cute but pack a flavorful punch. So when this one guy spotted a plate of what looked like “little pieces of toast” he jumped at the hostess and asked for a serving. But to his – and his wife’s – dismay, it was just a bowl of croutons.
Me at 1st cocktail party. There was a dish of what looked like almonds? I took a couple and popped them in my mouth.
— Carlie (@CarlieP) May 19, 2019
They were not almonds.
It was a communal discard bowl for the pits from the fancy olives.
That's right. Olive pits spat from the mouths of god-only-knows who.
Food art and illusion foods can trick people into thinking that they’re eating one thing until they take a bite and realize it’s something completely different. It’s the kind of dining experience you expect at a fancy restaurant, but less likely at a cocktail party. This Twitter user admitted to mistakenly taking a handful of nuts, only to find out they were discarded olive pits. The horror.
Friends made a point of getting tuxed up, and asking maîtres d (until they got an affirmative), if they 1: had Steak Tartare. 2: Could get it well done.
— T Karney (@pecunium) May 19, 2019
Number 6 blinked, tilted his head, “If Messieurs, desire steak tartare well done, it shall be well done”.
Said it was great.
Eating raw meat is something you typically do at a sushi restaurant, but dishes like tartare and carpaccio can be found on menus at other places too. While they’re typically served raw, this Twitter user’s friends decided to make an uncommon request to the waiter. For beef tartare to be prepared “well done.” A bold choice, but they got exactly what they asked for.
High Table is an old dining tradition that takes place at prestigious universities like Oxford and Cambridge. According to Julie Pens, it actually takes place on a high table and students alongside fellows of the college eat a lavish dinner together. Generally, at these fancy occasions, you’re given bowls of water to clean your hands before eating, but this one Twitter user confused that with their neighboring diner’s bowl of soup. We can’t handle it.
Ha! I wasn’t there for that one, but: A friend who was a fancy waiter had someone order the corkage fee, pronouncing it cork-AHZH fay, and my dude helped him save face, saying, “I’m so sorry, sir, but we’re all out of the corkage fee.”
— Malia Jackson (@rhymeswithmaria) May 18, 2019
It was also intangible. This one Tweeter’s friend who was on a budget decided to find the most inexpensive item on the menu and accidentally ordered the corkage fee: the fee you pay the restaurant if you bring your own bottle of wine. But this legend of a waiter didn’t embarrass him and instead told him they were all out.
For the first 30 years of my life, I thought I didn't like tamales. My friend convinced me to try one.
— CapriciousLeLe (@CapriciousLeLe) May 19, 2019
The pitifully aghast expression on my friend's face when I wrinkled my nose and bit into it, husk and all, will haunt me forever.
"Oh, sweetie..."
Especially if you’re doing it all wrong. Tamales, a modern Mexican dish is made of dough and steamed in a corn husk or a banana leaf. The outer casing can be used as a plate (incredible!) but is never, ever eaten. This one Twitter user had no idea, and just thought she hated tamales as she ate it leaf and all. Unfortunately, she learned the hard way.
I once mistook a stick of cinnamon (meant to flavor apple cider) for a churro...
— Peter Sterne (@petersterne) May 18, 2019
If you’ve never eaten a churro, you’re really missing out. These cylindrical fried tubes of dough can be dipped in chocolate, filled with hazelnut, and covered in sugar. They’re moist, crunchy, and best served hot. So it’s a real struggle to understand how this Twitter user once mistook a stick of cinnamon for a churro. But we’ll try and not be too judgemental, they’ve already suffered enough.
I was so schooled by being served octopus I yelled out “my god, they left the testicles on!” The people I was dining with were horrified.
— Garfield’s Ghost (@Occamsreznor) May 18, 2019
I was 14. Humiliation that burns many years later.
They will make a scene. This Twitter user admitted that at 14 years of age, they didn’t quite understand what octopus looked like. In fact, when they were served the delicious seafood at school one time, they screamed out, “my god, they left the testicles on!” We’re struggling to stifle our laughter, but if this isn’t the most teenager response to octopus, we don’t know what is.
Dining at an expensive restaurant has a few perks. The food is often pretty delicious, the service is second-to-none, and the extras are incomparable. This one diner, however, thought the hot towel they got handed at the end of their meal to clean their hands was somehow for their face. We feel bad for the people they were with.
My first girlfriend’s dad didn’t really like me. He took us to a sushi joint and, knowing I had never had it before, told me you’re supposed to just eat like, a quarter-sized hunk of wasabi. I didn’t even know you could cry out your nose
— Matt Brown (@MattBrownEP) May 18, 2019
Little bits of wasabi on your sushi or sashimi is a fiery treat that flares up in your mouth for a split second before dissipating entirely. It’s completely unlike chili, which makes it so fun to eat. But this one guy learned the hard way that too much wasabi can make you cry out of every orifice and that dads will be jerks if they’re protective of their daughters.
Here’s how unsophisticated my wine palate is:
— Sean Simons (@seanrsimons) September 12, 2019
I’ve been saving an “expensive” bottle of wine for months. Uncorked what I thought was said bottle. Downed a glass. Then proceeded to Google the wine because it was so tasty.
$3.99 at Trader Joe’s. pic.twitter.com/jOX23PjiaF
While going down the wine list at an expensive place, you’re likely to come across prices for bottles and a single glass. It doesn’t just allow people on a budget to have a taste of an expensive Rosé or delicious champagne, but gives sharers the option to buy an entire bottle of the good stuff. Unlike this Twitter user, who stayed home, others have have thought they were ordering an entire bottle for $79, only to learn they had requested just a glass of very expensive champagne.
Nothing sucks more than being embarrassed in front of co-workers. In a terrible twist of events, this poor woman got caught by her boss looking totally clueless and her GIF choice had us cringing.
The first time I went to a b fancy restaurant I was accidentally (and ridiculously) given two knives, and no fork. I assumed that the waiter had given me the cutlery for my (pig skin and spinach salad) so I ate it by manipulating it to my mouth with the knives. Delicious but jeez
— Grace Lavery (@graceelavery) May 19, 2019
While most people in this situation would simply request a fork from their waiter, this Twitter user admits she assumed her given cutlery was specific for her pig skin and spinach salad. This defies logic, but she did manage to eat her entire meal this way.
I was mad hungover one morning on a family trip in Cannes and asked the bewildered French server to just keep pulling espresso shots until my normally-sized coffee mug was full. We had a winery tour later that day 🤢 I nearly died. Peak American.
— leslie smeslie (@TheRevDrLeslie) May 19, 2019
A Twitter user revealed her hangover got much worse after convincing a waiter to fill her entire mug up entirely with espresso. A few hours later when felt so sick, she remembered her “bewildered” French server’s expression.
You’re with your coworkers. Your company spent all this money to rent out a fancy club. They’re serving a Christmas dinner to celebrate the holidays. All of a sudden you pick up a white chocolate truffle at the table. But before it even reaches your mouth your boss is yelling, “NO SHAILEE THAT’S BUTTER.”
If this were me, call an ambulance, I’d have died on the spot from shame.
This woman was dared to order the snails and had no idea how to get the buttery critter out of its shell. Eventually, the waiter stepped into and gently handed her the tiny fork to help her out.
So when you make a terrible mistake, like pouring yours into the shaker full of salted ice, you just got to push through. The worst part? She paid $20 for this drink
This man’s brother once asked a priest “when offered wine at Communion” if he had any white.
We sure think this is funny, so we’re not sold on it being a social faux pas.
After dressing to the nines for her fancy meal, Kelly was confused when the waiter asked to change out her clean white napkin. When she asked for an explanation, she ended up learning he was offering her a black napkin to go with her black dress.
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